A Mom By Any Other Name

An Offering

2012-03-06T21:31:00.000-06:00

Does it ever seem like everyone else is doing something bigger? Better? More impressive?

At times, I'm overwhelmed by how underwhelming I seem to be. As I read blogs, check statuses on Facebook, and follow feeds on Twitter, it sometimes appears that everyone else is somehow more "with-it" than me....somehow more "on top" of things...somehow, just "more."

But real life is hard to capture in the 140 characters of a tweet. Or in a status update. Or even in a more lengthy blog post. And those snapshot views do not give the whole picture.

Which makes me wonder....
Why do I worry so much about how I compare to others?

Again and again, I am being shown the importance of who I am and what I do, right here and now.

Recently, this verse was shared with me. And let me tell you, folks: if really, truly, put into practice - this thing is a game changer!

"So here's what I want you to do, God helping you:

Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping,

eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—

and place it before God as an offering."
Romans 12:1 (The Message)

For if my actions each day are meant as an offering, then all that laundry, all those dishes, all the housework is not menial and meaningless. It holds untold value. And I am fulfilling a great purpose. I am not small, or worse, or unimpressive.

I am right where I am meant to be.

Our Plans...God's Plans

2012-02-23T12:51:00.000-06:00

Ever feel overwhelmed by your day?
Are there times you wish that instead of a hectic run-around, you were greeted with something like this?

At first glance, it seems like this would be a great way to start the day. We’d all be given a “status report” and know exactly what to expect. But real life doesn’t work this way. We can’t see what’s coming up ahead.

Proverbs 19:6 reminds us that, “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.”

Not knowing what the future holds can seem unsettling.
We want more information. But there’s a song that accurately describes how we see our life and how God sees the big picture. The song is called Parade:

“You see the whole parade
From the beginning to the end
You know the route that my life will take
You know exactly where I’ve been
While I only see what’s
goin’ by in front of me
You see the whole parade”

Parade (Parade Album Version) by Go Fish on Grooveshark

Sometimes we forget that we can only see a small part of life…
only a tiny amount of the details that swirl around. Yet God sees it all. It’s not our job to know everything and to have a constant “status update.”

It’s our job to trust God’s plans for our life, and know that they are “plans to prosper us, not to harm us, plans to give us hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

Saturday Soundtrack {Learning to Be the Light}

2012-02-18T14:38:00.000-06:00

So much to think about in this one song...

Saturday Soundtrack {You Lead}

2012-02-04T15:58:00.000-06:00

Friends, guess what?

We are sheep. We all follow after something...

Let's be sure we're following the Good Shepherd.

Happy Saturday!

Not So Subtle

2012-02-01T11:20:00.000-06:00

We've been watching a lot of "Tangled" at our house lately. It is a current favorite; the girls love it and Mommy likes it (which means the fall-out for watching it again and again and again is minimized.) Lil' R is currently growing our her hair to be "like Rapunzel." And both girls have begun planning their Tangled-themed birthday party. (You know....the party that won't be taking place for 6 MONTHS.)

One of the parts of the movie that always gets a big laugh is the way Rapunzel wields a frying pan like a weapon, keeping Flynn Rider in line. The girls giggle and giggle, and love to repeat the quote, "I've gotta get me one of those."

A frying pan to the head isn't very subtle, but it sure gets the point across. And lately, I'm beginning to think that I may have been missing some of the more gentle whispers from God. Because the last week, I seem to be seeing reminder after reminder of my need to be PATIENT with the girls...the reminders that seem to be coming like a shot in the arm, a big banner flashing in my face, or a flick to the forehead.

As I was lamenting about our 4th visit to the school lost-and-found, to search for Lil' N's missing mittens, I saw this on Facebook:

From: Unofficial Homeschooler's Facebook Page

Oh my.

After yelling about something-or-other, as my Wild One bounced from room to room, I saw this on one of my favorite blogs:

From: (in)Courage

Um, hmm.

And after a morning of child-wrangling to make it out the door to school, I saw this on Twitter:

From: Inspired to Action

Ah, yes. More patience.

Apparently, it's a "skillet-to-the-skull" kind of week.

Third Thursday Thoughts {Not Alone}

2011-12-15T14:06:00.000-06:00

Once a month, I link up with Hearts at Home's "Third Thursday Thoughts" They provide the topic, and I share my thoughts on the subject. This month's topic is "When did you realize you weren't on your own in this journey called motherhood."

There was a time when I felt very along in the land of motherhood. Hubby and I became parents before most of our friends, and for a while, it seemed that few people "got" us.

Slowly and surely, that's changed. It crept in quietly, until one I found myself surrounded by other moms...friends who truly understand.

They're the ones who can commiserate when the kids won't sleep. And the ones I can call when I desperately need a babysitter. They send emails of encouragement, leave notes on my Facebook wall., and whisper prayers on my behalf. They understand the joy in coffee and conversation. They offer advice when asked and support as needed.

These are the people who bless my life in such sweet ways.

Thanks, mommy-friends. I hope I am able to give you even a fraction of the love you've showed me!

Saturday Soundtrack {The Blessings Song}

2011-11-26T07:30:00.003-06:00

I hope that you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving week! Here's the song, "Blessings" to listen to and enjoy, as we finish out the month of November. Enjoy!

Count Your Blessings Instead Of Sheep - Bing Crosby With Orchestra by Bing Crosby on Grooveshark

"Truth in the Tinsel" Review

2011-11-25T14:49:00.000-06:00

Recently, I was given the opportunity to review Truth in the Tinsel, a new, advent resource for families. This e-book was written by Amanda White, who shares great ideas and insights at her blog, Impress Your Kids.

After reading it over, I'm so excited for the month of December to arrive, so that I can start these activities with my girls! It's such a great way to explore the Christmas story with young children. And I'm always looking for easy-to-use resources for our home, as well as in the children's ministry at my church; this e-book fits the bill.

You know those craft books that are supposed to be used with kids, but are so complicated that you need a degree in fine art to complete them?
This is not that book.

You know those projects that require a list of 47 art supplies, that must be purchased from a specialty store?
This is not that project.

You know those devotions that last about 17 minutes longer than your child's attention span?
This is not that devotional.

But here's what it IS:
Truth in the Tinsel is a real resource...for real moms...with real children. I love that the author provides the supply list, but also lets you know that you can use what you have on hand and substitute items as needed. I love that Amanda gives options about how to use this resource for all 24 days, but also gives alternate schedules for use over a shortened time-frame. I love that just reading it sparked my own creativity, and gave me ideas about how to use these projects with my own kids.

This book includes easy-to-follow instructions for making an ornament each day, representing a part of a the Christmas story. It also provided "talk about it" prompts to discuss with your kids, as well as expansion ideas, to keep the learning going. This advent experience will definitley be a part of our Christmas preparations.

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If you'd like to purchase this book and begin enjoying it with your own children, visit the Truth in the Tinsel website. There is also a Truth in the Tinsel Facebook page, where you can share your advent experiences with others. (The book is regularly $4.99, but on Black Friday, it's on sale for $2.99!) Please check it out...you won't be disappointed.

Disclosure: I was given an advanced copy of Truth in the Tinsel for review purposes. The opinions expressed in the post are entirely mine.

Saturday Soundtrack {It Won't Be Like This For Long}

2011-11-19T07:30:00.001-06:00

Sometimes, songs have the power to say exactly what you need to hear. This week, I was listening to Pandora and heard the song "It Won't Be Like This For Long." This is a song I've heard plenty of times, but this week, it stopped me in my tracks. When things get busy, hectic, or stressful, it's so easy to wish this time away. Time goes by so quickly, and somewhere down the road, I am going to miss THIS moment...right here, right now.

My sister-in-law once shared this quote with me:

"The days are long, but the years are short."

It's a good reminder not to wish the present away, because somewhere in the future, we're going to wish for the moments from the past.

Happy listening. Enjoy today, right where you are.

It Won't Be Like This for Long by Darius Rucker on Grooveshark

Third Thursday Thoughts {Living With Less, So Your Family Has More}

2011-11-17T13:53:00.000-06:00

Today, I'm joining in the Hearts at Home Blog Hop with Third Thursday Thoughts. This month's topic is "Living With Less, So Your Family Has More."

Here's our top 5 ways that we're cutting back on our spending:

1. Menu planning -- I used to go into the grocery store with a half-devised list and wander around, putting items in my cart that I thought I might be able to use to create some meals. The trouble was that this tactic usually resulted in multiple return trips to the store, because we didn't really have the things we needed. (and spending a lot more money in the process.) Finally I figured out that if I wrote out our weekly menu BEFORE going to the store, we ended up saving a lot of money (and it also keep me more sane, because it takes care of the "what's for dinner" question.)

2. Making our own laundry soap -- Recently, I began making our own laundry soap, using this recipe from Jill Savage. It works great, and is a huge savings (About $7 worth of ingredients lasts 6+ months)

3. DIY -- I'm very lucky that I married a guy who is extremely handy. He has completed so many projects at our house that we never could have afforded to hire someone to do for us: fencing, flooring, patio doors, decking....he's installed them all!

4. Using store brands -- Often time, there is no real difference between store brand items and the brand name ones (except for the price.)

5. Keeping gift-giving in check-- with Christmas approaching, it can be easy to go crazy when buying gits for the kids. To help us remember to keep things in check, Hubby and I follow a "3 gift rule" for our kids, since the wise men brought three gifts the Jesus. It's just a good way for us to keep spending under control and focus on the real reason for the season.

What's your favorite way to save?

Thankful on Paper {Week 3}

2011-11-16T15:12:00.056-06:00

"As we express our gratitude,

we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words,

but to live by them."

- John F. Kennedy

It's hard to believe that it's already Week 3 of Thankful on Paper.

(If you want to catch up, check out Week 1 and Week 2 here.)

This week, I sent thank you cards to my parents and in-laws. I've been greatly blessed with parents by birth, step-parents who joined my life, and in-laws who accepted me. They're such an important part of my life and the lives of my family. They love their role as grandparents! And I know I can always call with anything I need. I'm blessed beyond words.

Thanks Mom, Dennis,

Dad, Kristine,

Kent, & Laurie!

My mom and step dad with the grand-kids

My dad and mother & father in-law at Grandparent's Day at Lil' N's school

My step-mom and the girls at a Halloween Party

"These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the door frames of your houses and on your gates."

Deuteronomy 6:6-9

Saturday Soundtrack {American Kid}

2011-11-12T07:30:00.002-06:00

Sporting their flag shirts for Veterans Day

In honor of Veterans Day yesterday, today's Saturday Soundtrack is "American Kid."

Tell me: what's your favorite patriotic song?

Enjoy your weekend!

Veterans Day

2011-11-11T07:30:00.023-06:00

We've been on a mission to do some cleaning out. We had a garage sale. We've given items away. We've sold things on eBay and Craigslist. One of the items to recently leave our possession was a large, outdoor dog kennel. Hubby posted it "for sale" at the beginning of the week, and by mid-week had a buyer.

Turns out, the man who bought the dog kennel was a soldier, leaving for Iraq the very next day. His dad was keeping his dog while he was gone, and needed a kennel. We will never know anything about this guy after today. But for some reason, laying in bed that night, I felt compelled to say a prayer for this soldier's safety.

I have so much respect for the men and women who put on a uniform, stand tall, and keep up safe and protected. My father is still a member of the Air National Guard, and has been oversees on several occasions. Our friend recently arrived home, after 4 years of serving abroad in the Marines. We have family friends, whose sons both served in the National Guard. And Hubby and I both have numerous family members who have served in the Armed Forces. We hold these, and so many others close to our hearts.

As Thanksgiving draws closer, stop on this day and be grateful for the blessing of freedom.

Today, find someone who has served.
And say, "thank you."

"We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude."

-Cynthia Ozick

Thankful on Paper {Week 2}

2011-11-09T20:56:00.001-06:00

There is no such thing as gratitude unexpressed.

If it is unexpressed, it is plain, old-fashioned ingratitude.

~Robert Brault

This is Week 2 of Thankful on Paper --
a reminder to thank the people around us for all the ways they bless us.

Today, I'm saying, "thank you" to my Aunt Pam.

She's fabulous and funny. She's known for bursting into song at any moment (because she knows a song to go with any situation.) She let's my girls call her "Aunt Ham." (Not sure exactly how that started, but she's a good sport about it.)

My aunt and uncle regularly let my sister and I tag along on trips, prompting people to say to Pam, "I thought you had all boys!?!"

I'm also incredibly grateful that she's such a strong person. Because almost a year ago, Pam was diagnosed with cervical cancer. And she's beat it...and continues to have good reports at each check up.

Thank you, Pam, for letting me be one of "your girls,"

and for the special role you play in the life of my family.

Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good;
his love endures forever.
Psalm 107:1

(Check out Week 1 HERE.)

My Thanksgiving "Attitude Check"

2011-11-08T20:15:00.000-06:00

Source: Knock Off Decor via Jackie Rutkowski Ellis on Pinterest

The approaching Thanksgiving holiday is always a reminder to me to do an “attitude check.” Is Thanksgiving merely a date on the November calendar, or is it an attitude of gratitude in my heart? Because when we’re looking a life through the lens of thanksgiving, then we become more content about everything in our life.

For example…

~ We can complain about the dishes we need to wash,

or we can be thankful we had food to eat.

~ We can be annoyed by the mountain of laundry,

or we can be grateful that our family has clothes to wear.

~ We can fuss about the toys strewn about on the floor,

or we can give thanks for the house we live in and the children who fill it with joy.

Linda Dillows wrote, “Each of us has a choice about how we look at life: we can focus on the mud, or we can look up and see the stars. God wants you and me to learn to be content in our circumstances, not when they improve.”

When gratitude is a part of our daily existence, then Thanksgiving becomes a celebration of all we have; it is not a one-day event, but a year-round expression of our blessings.

“In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus."

1 Thessalonians 5:18

Today was a good day...

2011-11-05T23:24:00.001-05:00

Today was one of those days that was simply good. There was no major event, no big plans, no itinerary for the day. But it was a good day, with lots of laughter.

There was shopping, and the girls picked out new, fur-lined hats for the winter. There was kite-flying. There was a wagon ride on the newly-rebuilt trailer. There was time spent playing in the sunshine and cute girls that came inside smelling like fall.

It was a good day.

Saturday Soundtrack {Sisters}

2011-11-05T07:30:00.005-05:00

Earlier this week, I wrote how thankful I am for my sister. As I began to mull over songs for this week's Saturday Soundtrack, there was really only one song choice.

Kathie & I spent many years of our childhood performing our very own "shows" - complete with song and dance numbers. One of our favorites was always the song "Sisters" from the movie White Christmas. At one point, I think there were paper fans involved. (We were nothing, if not authentic.)

Is there any song that reminds you of your siblings?
(And is there choreography to go with it???)

Thankful on Paper {Week 1}

2011-11-03T06:21:00.001-05:00

"Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone."

~ G.B. Stern ~

Today, I begin participating in Thankful on Paper. It's all about being grateful for the people in our lives who bless us....and then actually taking the time to tell them!

Yesterday, I mailed off a letter to my sister, Kathie.

We are sisters by birth, but friends by choice.

She was my companion and partner-in-crime. We drove each other crazy during our junior high and high school years, but came out on the the other side, closer than ever. Now, she's the one I call when I need to "vent" or when I'm just in the mood to chat.

Thanks, Kathie, for being both my sister AND my friend.


A cheesy "sister pic" from our family vacation last summer.

"O give thanks to the LORD, for He is good;
For His loving kindness is everlasting."

1 Chronicles 16:34

I'm linking up at Rachel's Number 17 blog today, for Thankful on Paper.

Growing Grateful Kids (And Grateful Moms!)

2011-11-02T07:08:00.001-05:00

Last fall, I purchased a book entitled, Growing Grateful Kids by Susie Larson. I was intrigued by the title right away because of course I wanted my girls to learn to be grateful. How many times had I lamented to our daughters, “Can’t you just be thankful for what you have?”

So I opened the book, ready to discover the best way to put the attitude of gratitude into our children. And right off the bat, I read,

“The key is to realize that as a parent you cannot impart what you do not possess. So growing grateful kids means learning to be a grateful parent – and that means genuine gratitude for everything from one pancake for breakfast to a flower smiling at you through a crack in the sidewalk.”

Wow! And here I thought this book was going to be all about how to “fix” my kids. Turns out, it was going to be about “fixing” by MY attitude first! Was I truly grateful for every thing we’d been blessed with? Was I imparting the value of gratefulness with my everyday actions? Joseph Joubert said, “To teach is to learn twice.” If I want our children to learn gratefulness, it seemed the biggest lesson would be mine.

One of my favorite bloggers is Rachel at Number 17. She's funny...and real...and relate-able. At a recent stop at her blog, I noticed that during the month of November, she's doing a project called Thankful on Paper -- it's all about taking the time to actually THANK the people we appreciate; a challenge to express our gratitude in a real and true way.

So tune in tomorrow, as I try to take the gratitude in my heart and put it into words. And go visit Rachel's site, and be Thankful on Paper, yourself.

“Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name;

make known among the nations what he has done.

Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always.

Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles and the judgments he pronounced.”

Psalms 105:1, 4-5

And tell me, what's one thing you're thankful for today?

I Miss Those Girls

2011-10-21T18:09:00.000-05:00

The girls have been at Grandma and Grandpa's house for the last few days. It was a nice break...a chance to get a few projects done, and a chance to do some things that are simpler without the kiddos around (you know, like get a haircut).

But in those few days, I also really missed them.
I missed them as I talked to them on the phone and heard this:

Lil' N - "Hey Mom"
Me - "Hey N, how's it going?"
(Giant thunk as the phone hits the ground)
Lil' N, yelling - "MOM!!! I dropped the phone! HOLD ON MOM! I'M COMING!"
(followed by hysterical giggling.)

I missed them when I woke up to complete silence.

And of course, I missed them when I saw this picture on Facebook:

I'm glad those cutie patooties are coming home today.

Life is Good

2011-10-13T09:42:00.000-05:00

Today, the weather is a bit dreary. It is cloudy and windy and wet.

But, today, I've got a smile on my face because of this:

...my two lovely ladies, skipping off to school.

Life is good.

Saturday Soundtrack {Good Morning}

2011-10-08T07:30:00.001-05:00

This song is a recent addition to our playlist. The girls love to sing and dance to this upbeat number; I like to play it while we're eating breakfast and getting ready for the day. And Lil' R calls this the "fancy" song....as in, "Mom, I wanna listen to that fancy song."

So, enjoy this fancy song, and have a good morning!

5 Minute Fridays {Ordinary}

2011-10-07T10:46:00.000-05:00

*On Fridays, the Gypsy Mama hosts "5 Minute Fridays" - a prompt to write on a topic for just five minutes. No editing. No second guessing. Just writing. So here's my five minutes on:
Ordinary

It seems that maybe...just maybe....ordinary is a matter of perspective.

Because when I think about my life in terms of:
loads of laundry,
piles of dishes,
floors that need sweeping,
furniture that needs dusting,
and bedrooms that need cleaning,
....then yes, my life seems pretty ordinary.

But what if I shift my perspective? What if I think about the OTHER things that are typically a part of my day:
an amazing husband, who works hard each day for his family;
two lovely daughters, gracing me with their smiles and giggles;
friends and family who are there when I call;
a house to keep us protected;
and always, always enough of what we need,
....then our life is no longer ordinary.

It is completely and wonderfully EXTRAORDINARY.

Family Fun Run

2011-10-05T14:34:00.001-05:00

Last weekend, Lil' N and I had the opportunity to participate in the Family Fun Run,

a part of the many activities surrounding the Twin Cities Marathon.

Lil' N was extremely excited to participate.

Before we left home, she made sure to stretch out....

(One picture simply would not have been enough to

highlight the complexity of this stretching routine!)

The weather was gorgeous! What a great day to be outside!

We joined up with Lil' N's school at the State Capitol grounds.

Soon we were ready to begin!

Lil' N did a great job...she was able to run almost the entire race (one mile).

Lil' N - just after finishing the run - with her medal!

Then, of course, it was time for an after-race snack!

What a fabulous fall morning!

(Lil' R is already planning for next year, when she can participate.

I guess that means Hubby's gotta join us, too!)

No Excuses

2011-09-23T08:57:00.000-05:00

"You do not really understand something
unless you can explain it to your grandmother."

~ Albert Einstein ~

It could also be said that you don't really understand something unless you can explain it to a classroom full of children.

In a recent Wednesday night lesson, I was talking with a class of elementary kids about Moses’ encounter with God in the burning bush. And as I worked to explain the lesson to my class, I had to develop a deeper grasp of the idea for myself.

When Moses heard that God wanted him to lead the Israelites out of slavery, Moses’ first inclination was to say, “no.” He had plenty of excuses as to why he could go and why he couldn’t be the one. But God had an answer for each and every excuse.

Moses said, “Who am I?”

God told Moses “I will be with you.”

Moses says, “I am not eloquent or a man of words.”

And God said, “I will teach you what you shall say.”

Moses said, “Sent someone else.”

God told Moses that he would send Aaron to help him, but that he still wanted Moses.

God wiped out all Moses’ excuses because he promised to provide the strength needed for the task. God had a plan for Moses and He has a plan for our lives. We just have to stop making excuses and say, “YES!”

Saturday Soundtrack {Love and Laundry}

2011-09-17T07:30:00.000-05:00

Ah yes, a song about real life! We've been settling back into the school year, trying to find a new "normal" routine, while this tune keeps working it's way onto my playlist.

Saturday Soundtrack {A-B-C}

2011-09-10T07:30:00.001-05:00

So, my lovely ladies started school this week. It's official: I'm the mom of a first grader (who's at school ALL DAY LONG), and a four-year old in preschool. They were both gone on Thursday morning; it was very quiet here.

For your Saturday morning enjoyment: a picture of school-going cuteness and some ABC's and 123's.

The Pre-School Princess

2011-09-09T16:27:00.000-05:00

On Thursday, the princess pictured above headed off to pre-school. {insert SIGH here.}

I'm not sure how it is that she is already four years old. Wasn't she just an infant?

Lil' R headed into her classroom without a backwards glance;

no tears, no sadness.

When I picked her up two hours later, I asked Lil' R if she had fun playing with her friends.

"Mom," she replied.

"It's not a lot of play. It's mostly work."

I love that girl!

10 Prayers for My 1st Grader

2011-09-06T11:30:00.000-05:00

Last night, the backpack was waiting by the door, the clothes were laid out, and everything had been double-checked. Lil' N was sleeping soundly, dreaming of the first day of first grade. As I headed upstairs to my own bedroom, I felt compelled to stop in Lil' N's room and pray for her day; to place a blessing upon her year. And as I prayed, I realized I'd asked God for 10 things for my sweet girl:

(1) The Lord bless you and keep you.

(2) The Lord make his face shine upon you.

(3) I pray you'll be a leader,

(4) a learner,

(5) and a lover of God.

(6) I pray you'll be kind,

(7) and caring,

(8) and compassionate to others.

(9) I pray you'll be blessed this year.

(10) And I pray that you'll be a blessing to others.

Saturday Sountrack {Coming To Your City}

2011-09-03T09:24:00.000-05:00

Around here, Saturdays + Fall = College football. And you can tell that Lil' R and Lil' N are daddy's girls because they LOVE the theme song for ESPN's College Game Day. So in honor of the first Saturday of the college football season, it only seems appropriate that today's Saturday Soundtrack would be "Coming to Your City!"

Saturday Soundtrack {Put A Girl In It}

2011-08-27T20:29:00.000-05:00

This week, Hubby and I enjoyed date night, courtesy of some friends who gave us free tickets to a concert at the state fair. We went to the Ronnie Dunn & Reba McEntire concert (remember, I'm a country girl, folks!) and sang along to lots of "old favorites." So, in honor of our night out...

And of course, haven't the girls and I made Hubby's life better?!?!?

He Loves Her More

2011-08-25T11:45:00.000-05:00

Photo credit: D. Sharon Pruitt

Recently, I overheard a conversation between my husband and my daughter. Hubby was telling Lil' R how much he loved her, using familiar distances as a part of his example

“I love you from here, to your cousin' house, to Iowa, to Grandpa & Grandma’s, to the moon and back," he said, as she giggled.

Then he continued, “But Jesus loves you more.”

For the rest of the day, Lil' R continued to tell me,
“Jesus loves me more. He loves me more, Mom.”

When September begins, we'll step into a new season of life. We’ll be sending Lil' N off to first grade: her first experience with all-day school. As a parent, these moments are tough. We know our kids need to grow and change, but sometimes, it’s hard to accept those changes.

So when I take Lil' N for the first day of school, I’ll be striving to remember that as much as I love her and want the best for her, Jesus loves her more! He cares for my kids even more than Hubby and I can imagine.

May you have power with all God's people to understand Christ's love.

May you know how wide and long and high and deep it is.

And may you know his love, even though it can't be known completely.

Then you will be filled with everything God has for you.

(Ephesians 3:18-19)

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Top 10 Home Improvement Projects

2011-08-22T21:35:00.001-05:00

Last month, we celebrated the two-year anniversary of home ownership. And as any home-owner knows, there are always, always, always projects on the "to-do" list. And because our home is so old (it was built in 1892), there seem to be extra projects for that list. But as I started thinking back on all we've managed to accomplish in the past two years, I began to feel pretty proud of us. I also feel pretty blessed, because my handy hubby is able to provide the sweat equity for all of these times when I say, "Hey hun, I've got a great idea!"

So here are our Top 10 Home Improvement Projects
(thus far, and in no particular order.)

1. Curb appeal

2. New entrance, fence, and door.

3. Replacing the deck

4. Putting in a patio door

5. Replacing the old, mauve carpet with hardwood flooring in the living and dining rooms.
(As well as removing wall paper & painting.)

6. Un-landscaping the backyard (Removing trees, shrubs, & overgrown plants.)

7. Removing the pond in the backyard. (It seemed cool for about a week --
which is the time it took for one of the girls to almost fall in.)

8. Painting the bedrooms (Showing what a mama can accomplish during a 1 hour nap- time!)
Lil' N's Room:

Lil' R's Room:

9. Painting the Master Bedroom:

10. Adding the Hallway Closet
(Hubby turned this wasted area into much-need closet space.)

I'm sure there will be many more projects to come.

But as I look around, I'm so thankful for the many ways that this house has turned into our home.

Saturday Soundtrack {Hold Me}

2011-08-13T07:30:00.002-05:00

Nothing stops the car crabbiness faster than a great tune. When we're cruising around, running from errand to errand, we like the sing and groove and act silly in the car. And this song is one of the girls' current favorites. There's no way to listen to this one and not feel happy!

Land of the Free, Home of the Fearless

2011-08-11T21:49:00.000-05:00

Once upon a time, there was a little girl who was timid in the water. She didn't want her face in the water or any drips in her eyes.

And then one day, that little girl transformed into a water-loving super hero.

She flies...

She turns...

She twists...

She balances...

She clowns...

Oh, and did I mention...

SWIMS WITHOUT HER FLOATIES!?!?!?

Happy Birthday Lil' N

2011-08-08T09:31:00.000-05:00

Pizazz:

piz·zazz or pi·zazz or piz·zaz

n. Informal

1. Dazzling style; flamboyance; flair.

2. Vigorous spirit; energy or excitement.

That's you, Lil' N!

From the moment you came into our lives, you've kept us on our toes.

You've brought sparkle and life and energy to our house.

And pizazz. Lots and lots of pizazz.

Happy 6th Birthday, sweet girl!

Saturday Soundtrack {The World}

2011-08-06T08:45:00.001-05:00

Welcome to the Saturday Soundtrack! Today, I'm dipping into my country roots and sharing a fun, toe-tapping ditty. You know what they say: you can take the girl out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the girl!

So go on. Push play. And get your Saturday-morning-boogie on.

A Day in My Life: Summer Addition {Inspiration Workshop}

2011-08-04T07:34:00.002-05:00

What's a typical day in my life look like?

After a busy first-half of the summer, it feels like we're finally in a bit of a lull....
and enjoying it to the fullest!

Photo credit: D Sharon Pruitt

As the kiddos climb down from their beds, with yawns and stretches, our day springs forth.

We snuggle on the couch. The girls watch cartoons. And I enjoy my morning coffee.

And when the mood strikes, we head to the kitchen for breakfast.

The morning is filled with playtime:

Books.

Bikes.

Barbies.

(And breaking up fights.)

And also a lot of this..................................and this.

After lunch we have quiet time.
And then snack.

And then comes our favorite time:
Daddy is home! (Yay for summer work hours!)

His arrival usually means it's time to swim!

The rest of the day is filled with projects, or soccer, or meetings, or movies,

and just plain being together.

Photo credit: D. Sharon Pruitt

And then, the kiddos head off to bed.
And Hubby and I have time to finish projects, clean up, talk about our day, or watch our favorite TV shows.
(Thank goodness for DVR!)

So there you have it.
Our simple, but never boring,
and always changing life.

Summer is our down time, but soon September will come. Lil' N will be off to full days of first grade (sniff!) and Lil' R will be back a preschool two mornings a week. And when Hubby's hits "busy season" at work, he works more and more hours, and we see him less and less.

That's why we soak in these laid-back days like the summer sun.

I'm linking up a Gussy Sews Inspiration Workshop,

which provided these week' prompt "A Day In My Life."

Birthday Blessings

2011-08-03T14:31:00.000-05:00

We're still recovering from the wild and crazy weekend. To celebrate Lil' N and Lil' R's birthdays, we had a Pirate Pool Party. And because we have a lot of family and also included some special friends, it was a large party...like 45 people kinda large. Hey, we don't believe in doing things on a small scale around here!

But as I reflect on the weekend, I am truly humbled by just how blessed we are to have so many people who really, truly care about out girls; so many people who love them and love us.

Family...friends...thanks for being a part of our lives!

Time for cake!

We even had a treasure hunt!

What a great p-arrrrr-ty!

Carseat Conversations {Hanging With Jesus}

2011-07-27T15:03:00.000-05:00

Some of my favorite conversations are simply overheard. I love listening to the chats the girls have as we're driving. Sometimes, it's interesting to simply listen - not to comment or join in. Here's a recent gem from the "Carseat Conversations" file.

Lil' R: It's no fun when you die. You just have to lay there.

Lil' N: But there's one good thing about dieing: you get to live with Jesus.

Lil' R: Yeah. Then I can help him make the weather.
I would tell me we don't want any more rain.

Photo source: Car Keys by Anna Cervovac

Saturday Soundtrack {Do Everything}

2011-07-23T07:30:00.002-05:00

Recently, I heard a song on the radio that caught my attention. The song was “Do Everything” and the whole point was that no matter what we’re doing, we should do it for the glory of God. But the lyrics drew me in from the very beginning, because it definitely seemed relevant to my life:

As a stay-at-home mom, I sometimes forget that things like laundry and dishes can be done for God. As we go about our daily routine, I often fail to see all the opportunities to give Him glory.

In an interview about this new song, Steven Curtis Chapman explained the catalyst for writing these words. “I think we all have a tendency to want to draw a line down life and say this {on one side} is the spiritual stuff, and this {on the other side of the line} is just the stuff – the spiritual versus the secular. But we all know that there isn’t really a line. It all matters.”

“Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:30

“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”

Ephesians 2:10

Full

2011-07-22T09:40:00.001-05:00

Our summer has been full.

Filled up.

Overflowing.

Full.

But at some moments, I wonder, "Has it been TOO full? Should we have scaled back? Had more downtime?"

But what would I eliminate? Our amazing VBS? Watching Lil' N take on soccer? Parties with family and friends? Our family vacation? Swimming in our pool? Roasting marshmallow?

I would take nothing back. Because the summer has been perfectly, overflowingly, full.

Just the way summer should be. Just the way life should be. Just the way my heart should be.

Linking up with the Gypsy Mama for 5 Minute Friday: 5 minutes of writing with no editing, tweaking or self critiquing.

Third Thursday Thoughts {Alike, Yet Different}

2011-07-21T07:48:00.001-05:00

Today, I am once again joining in with my Third Thursday Thoughts. Today's topic is: How are you like your mom? How are you different?

One way my mom and I are alike is in our skill for baking homemade cinnamon rolls. There are very few things that I claim to have mastery over. But if my mom is the master cinnamon roll maker, then I am her apprentice. It's something I'm pleased to have learned from her, and happy to be teaching my own daughters. (I even wrote a guest post at "Homegrown Mom" about teaching your daughters to make cinnamon rolls!)

My mom and I are also both very involved in children's ministry at our respective churches. My mom has been a huge part of kids' programming for over 20 years...as a volunteer! For nearly 5 years, I have worked as the part-time children's minister at our church. We frequently discuss lesson ideas, curriculum, and Vacation Bible School planning, bouncing ideas off one another.

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My mom and I differ in our locations: she's a dairy farmer, living outside a small Iowa town. I live in the Twin Cities in Minnesota. I know it would make my mother crazy to live in the city, but after a little adjustment period, I really enjoy being in a metro area. (But I often joke with Hubby that it's a good thing he married a farm girl, so I'm tough enough to help him with all our home improvement projects.)

My mom and I also seem to operate at different speeds. She seems to always be moving at warp-speed, while I prefer to have more down-time in our family's schedule. (But perhaps she's ready to learn some relaxing ways: on our recent family vacation, my sister, and I convinced my mom to have a pedicure with us!)

My mom and step-dad with their 3 grand-kids.

*While looking for a picture to accompany this post,

I realized another way Mom and I are alike:

we're usually the ones behind the camera, not in the picture!

In what ways are you like your mom? How are you different?

Lil' R Turns Four

2011-07-16T07:51:00.001-05:00

Happy Birthday, Lil' R!

I can't believe my baby is four today!

You are beautiful, inside and out,

and we are so blessed to have you in our family!

You are such a sweetheart.

And, you are a riot.

Last night you told me that when you turned four,

you'd "probably still like mac and cheese."

Why I Feel Like the Summer Is Speeding By

2011-07-15T16:49:00.000-05:00

(Alternately titled "Why I Haven't Been Keeping Up With Blogging")

The summer is going by much too quickly.

And at first.

I wondered how on earth we've already made it half-way through July.

And then I remember what we've been up to....

Swim, swim, swimming...
(We've got a couple of fishies!)

Welcoming a new nephew...
(Proud cousins!)

Vacation Bible School..
(VBS Director? Yeah, that would be me.)

Celebrating the 4th...
(There's nothing better than spending the day with family & friend!)

Family Vacation...
(1 Week in St. Louis)

It's no wonder the summer is passing in a blur!

(I'm linking up my "Why I" post at VanderbiltWife.com)

Saturday Soundtrack {Anniversary Edition}

2011-06-18T07:30:00.002-05:00

This week, we're delving into the lighter side of the Saturday Soundtrack. Some friends recently introduced us to this song by comedian Tim Hawkins. And it seemed perfect for our anniversary week.

Enjoy!

Third Thursday Thoughts {A Message to My Teenage Self}

2011-06-16T22:01:00.000-05:00

If you could go back in time and tell your teenage self one thing,

what would it be?

Would you divulge the outcomes of some tough decisions?

Would you give tips on what stocks to buy?

Would you draw out a road-map to adulthood,

circling points "not to be missed,"

and carefully marking that which should be avoided at all costs?

I think,
given the chance,

I would simply tell my teenage self to hold her head high...

to be more confident in herself...

to not worry so much over every new thing...

and to know that her life turns out pretty great.

9 Years...

2011-06-15T21:44:00.000-05:00

Today, Hubby and I are celebrating our ninth anniversary.

In nine years we've...

lived in 2 states,

moved to 5 different houses

had 8 different cars,

held 15 various jobs,

owned 2 cats & 1 dog,

AND given birth to 2 amazing daughters.

But the most important number is:

ONE.

My one and only husband.

Our one great marriage.

My number one best friend.

We may not have the perfect life.

But we have been so perfectly blessed.

Natalie's Last Day of Kindergarten!

2011-06-08T10:17:00.001-05:00

Teacher, You Light Up My Year

2011-06-07T14:05:00.001-05:00

School is wrapping up and we've been working on some end-of-the year teacher gifts! This year, we decided to give candles, with tags that read "You've helped to LIGHT up my year!" (Who doesn't love a good play on words?!?) So we gathered our supplies and got to work.

First, I made these gift tags with the message.

Then, the girls colored in the tags.

After placing the candles inside lunch-sized paper bags,

we attached the labels on top.

And there you have it: our easy-peasy teacher gifts!

For a printable version of these tags, click here.

Two Word Tuesday - #3

2011-06-07T11:04:00.000-05:00

Starting soccer...

HOT day...

Athletic diva!

Saturday Soundtrack {A classic with a twist}

2011-06-04T08:09:00.000-05:00

Welcome to my Saturday Soundtrack, where I share the tunes that keep our household groovin'.

This week, we've all been singing a classic with a twist. One of the songs for Lil' N's Kindergarten Spring Sing was called "First Grade, First Grade." It was adorable! Imagine 60+ kindergarteners in top hats belting out these words:

Start spreading the news

We're leaving today

We want to be a part of it:

First grade, first grade

We've worked very hard

Our teachers are proud

We'll make a brand-new start of it

First grade, first grade

If we can make it there, we'll make it anywhere

So here we come

First grade, first grade!

So enjoy the classic below, or sing along with the "First Grade" version.
(And one other thing...how is my girl almost a first-graders?!?!?!? But that's a topic for another day.)

Inspiration Workshop {Handmade}

2011-06-02T05:56:00.000-05:00

Sometimes inspiration is hard to come by. Sometimes dishes and laundry and picking up toys make it hard to have a creative thought. That's why I'm excited to participate in the Inspiration Workshop hosted by Maggie at Gussy Sews. (Holy cow, there is some cute stuff to be found in her shop! Some day, I sure hope that one of those cute, ruffley bags will live at my house!)

Each week, Maggie is providing a "prompt" to help in the search for inspiration in our own little corner of the world.

This week's prompt: HANDMADE...

There are lots of handmade items floating around my house.

But most of them were made by my lovely little crafters. Lil' N, especially, is always making some sort of fabulous project. But usually, the handmade goodness doesn't come from me.

Photo credit: www.makeit-loveit.com

This week, I came across this adorable flag shirt project. Now I cannot wait to make these for Lil' N and Lil' R! (And maybe for all their cousins...we'll see how it goes!) For the full tutorial, visit Make It And Love It. I have a feeling I'll be perusing that website often. And perhaps, there will soon be pictures of my lovely ladies sporting their very own ruffle-flag shirts!

For more information about the Inspiration Workshop,

click here.

Don't Forget to Remember

2011-05-30T19:55:00.000-05:00

Memorial Day is drawing to a close, but today I am choosing to remember the many men and women who have fought and died to preserve my freedom. Their sacrifice has given me the chance to enjoy wonderful days like this one.

Today is so much more than a work holiday or a day off of school. It's more than grilling or picnics. Today we've enjoyed all those things. But I hope to pass on the real meaning of this day to our daughters.

Growing up, this last Monday in May frequently included a trip to the local Memorial Day service. Even now, I can hear the many names that made up the soldiers' role. (Read by Neil - family friend, adopted grandpa, and birthday buddy- and the only voice that ever seemed right for that job.) I can see the local AMVET troop presenting the colors and recall the reading of "In Flanders Field." And for a moment, I stop and say a prayer of thanks for those soldiers who gave us all we have.

We had planned to attend a local Memorial Day service with the girls today, but morning thunderstorms forced a change of plans. However, we were still able to reflect on the meaning of the day with some at-home activities.

Lil' N and Lil' R made Memorial Day mini-books.

We watched the National Memorial Day Parade online.

We made patriotic windsocks.

And we enjoyed lots of time in the backyard, once the weather cleared.

It was a fabulous day,

brought to us by generations of service men and women,

who have protected us and kept us free.

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Click here to see the free Memorial Day printables we used from Education World.

Saturday Soundtrack {Never Grow Up}

2011-05-28T00:01:00.005-05:00

This week, I was singing the Taylor Swift song, "Never Grow Up" to Lil' R and I was inserting her name into the chorus:

"Oh Lil' R, don't you ever grow up....
don't you ever grow up...
just stay this little."

Without taking a breath, she joined in with,

"Oh Mommy, I've gotta grow up...I've just gotta grow up."

AND THEN, she told me (and I quote), "Jesus wants me to grow up, so I can be a wedded wife."

Well, then . . .hard to argue with that.

The Power of "Yes"

2011-05-27T21:28:00.000-05:00

Today we had a really, fabulous lunch. However, it had nothing to do with my culinary skill, or reservations at some great, new place.

It all started with leftovers.

I told the girls that we'd be having leftovers for lunch. At first, this was greeted with groans. But a few minutes later, Lil' N strolled in and said, "Can we make it just like Acapulco?" (Acapulco is one of our favorite family restaurants.)

"What do you mean?" I attempted to clarify.

"We can have chips and cheese and make a menu...just like Acapulco."

And here was the moment I could have said, "NO." I could have decided that it would be too much of a bother or told her to just eat. But in that moment, I said, "YES!"

I helped her write a menu with our fabulous choices (ie - all of the leftovers in the fridge). Lil' N put out a bowl of chips and selections of cheese dip and salsa as appetizers. We placed drinks in cups with straws, so it would be "more like the restaurant." And Lil' N was a fabulous waitress, taking orders from Lil' R and Hubby. I was, of course, the kitchen staff.

But most importantly, we turned a boring, unexciting lunch of leftovers into a grand, family event.

The thing is, I'm not always good about saying YES. But today, I saw how good YES can be. And hopefully, this will be a good reminder the next time I am tempted to say no.

Guest Posting at "Homegrown Mom"

2011-05-22T07:06:00.000-05:00

Today, I'm guest posting at:

as a part of Angela's "30 Days of Homemaking for Girls" series.

Come check it out as I share Teaching Your Daughters to Make Cinnamon Rolls!

Reagan's Last Day of Preschool

2011-05-19T09:41:00.000-05:00

Third Thursday Thoughts {Oatmeal Raisin Cookies}

2011-05-19T06:13:00.006-05:00

One of our family favorites is our oatmeal raisin cookie recipe.
This recipe was given to me at one of my wedding showers by
Hubby's grandmother.
It's loved by the kids and the Hubby alike...which makes it a classic, in my book!

Oatmeal Raisin Cookies

Mix together:

2 cups rolled oats, 2 cups flour, 1 1/4 cup sugar,

1 teaspoon cinnamon, 1 teaspoon cloves, 1 teaspoon baking soda,

and 1 cup melted butter

After mixing well, add:

5 tablespoons sour milk and 2 eggs, beaten.

(To "sour" the milk: add a small amount of vinegar to the milk

& let it sit for a few minutes.

Be sure the total amount of liquid is still 5 tablespoons,

though, or the cookies will be too runny.)

Then add 1 generous cup of raisins and stir.

Place in rounded spoonfuls on a cookie sheet.

Bake at 350 degrees for 10-12 minutes.

Enjoy!

Two Word Tuesday {Week 2}

2011-05-17T21:57:00.001-05:00

Finishing preschool!

Singing loud!

Proud Mommy!

Saturday Soundtrack {Hanging On}

2011-05-14T14:19:00.001-05:00

Welcome to my Saturday Soundtrack!

While I won't say I have an all-time favorite song, I definitely have "favorites for the moment." There are certain songs that just seem to speak to what's going on around me.

Right now, Hubby is very busy at work. So, the girls and I have been spending a lot of time on our own. Which is sometimes fun...and sometimes not. I heard this song on Monday for the first time, but it just seems to "fit" our week.

And now, for your listening pleasure...

Verse of the Week: 2 Corinthians 5:17

2011-05-14T14:04:00.001-05:00

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ,

the new creation has come:

The old has gone, the new is here!

2 Corinthians 5:17

For our Verse of the Week project, we created butterflies -

a great symbol of new life!

The girls started by painting coffee filters with watercolors.

Then we drew faces on clothes pins and pinched the coffee filter

inside the clothes pin.

We also added "antenna" made of twisty-ties.

Our finished products!

Two Word Tuesday {Week 1}

2011-05-10T09:51:00.001-05:00

Spring arrives!

May...hooray!

Bright sun!

Happy day!

What two word phrase best describes your day?

Verse of the Week: Matthew 5:43-44

2011-04-29T14:27:00.001-05:00

“You have heard that it was said,

‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemies.’

But I say to you

Love your enemies &

pray for those who hurt you.”

Matthew 5:43-44

What a hard verse to impress upon my children!

(Especially when it's so hard for most adults!)

It's against our normal nature to want to love those who hurt us.

Because of the detail in these color sheets,

we kept them out for most of the week.

And each time we sat down to work on them,

I had the opportunity to discuss this verse with the girls.

And perhaps, if I keep explaining it to my children....

I"ll get a better grip on it myself.

*Our Bible verse coloring sheets actually featured a 'sister verse' to

our actual Verse of the Week -- same message, though!*

Easter - Oh Glorious Day!

2011-04-24T22:44:00.000-05:00

What a wonderful Easter weekend!

We spent our time with family and friends,

remembering and rejoicing in the hope of Easter!

Here's a look at what made our Easter so wonderful...

On Good Friday, we made Resurrection Rolls.

(There are many variations -- we used this recipe.)

Reading the Easter story from John 19

Preparing the rolls:

The marshmallow, representing Jesus' body,
is wrapped in the crescent roll (cloth).

Placing the rolls in the "tomb"

The marshmallow is gone!

Amazing! Jesus is not here! He has risen!

We also colored Easter Eggs:

Easter Sunday:

All dressed up for church!

Hunting for Easter eggs.

Our weekend was almost too fabulous for words!

One final thought:

This day is full of such hope because

God's not dead - no! He is alive!
(a little peak at our Children's Easter Program)

Third Thursday Thoughts {Everyday Miracles}

2011-04-21T10:40:00.002-05:00

We often wish for miracles in our daily lives. We pray...we hope...we cry...we groan...we wait. And yet, when they show up, we are often unprepared to witness those miracles.

I find that I'm always hoping that God will send a miracle in my life that looks like something straight out of the Old Testament: a pillar of fire, manna from heaven, the sun that stops in the sky. Perhaps our culture's mantra of "impress-me-in-a-big-flashy-way," is causing us to miss the point. We're too busy looking for a message from God written in the sky like the trail of a sky-writer. Maybe there are everyday miracles all around us, and we're just not paying attention.

When I think of everyday miracles, the first thought in my mind is our daughters. How often have I taken for granted their uncomplicated birth, their good health, their quick minds, and their joyful personalities? Yet miraculously, these are the faces I look into every day. For now, God has entrusted them to me.

When I think of all the times I've heard the perfect song or a perfect verse or talked to just the right person at the perfect moment, I know that God's been at work. Those are everyday miracle. His hand is over me, around me, and guiding me in ways I will never truly understand.

When I've observed friends and family who have battled the mighty foe of cancer and have come through victorious, I'm amazed. And I'm even more in awe as I watched their strength along the way and their unwavering faith in God. Miracles...no doubt.

More and more, I am discovering that if I am waiting for a voice from heaven to proclaim, "Here is your miraculous sign," I am missing out on so many everyday miracles that God is placing in my path.

"I will consider all your works and meditate on all your mighty deeds.”

Psalm 44:12

Be Our Guest {A Visit from Allie Pleiter}

2011-04-18T06:59:00.000-05:00

When Hubby first introduced me to Twitter, I didn't get it. "Why does anyone care about what I'm doing?" I asked. But the thing about Twitter is that sometimes, it gives you the chance to do some really cool things. For example: thanks to a connection on Twitter, I have the opportunity to host Allie Pleiter on my blog. Today, Allie shares a little about her life as an author and a mom.

“If you ever write something with zombies and vampires, then maybe I’ll read it.”

Yes, moms, if you’re looking for literary respect from your fifteen year old son and you write romance novels, keep looking. Your only chance of wining their admiration may be if you wield a wicked Wii remote--they don’t much care how you wield a synopsis.

In short, my teenagers have never been impressed with my writing career. Ever. Once, when my now-nineteen year old daughter was in elementary school and having one of those inexplicably hard times, I asked her (foolishly), “Is it because Mom has a books and is on TV and all?”

No joke, she rolled her eyes, looked at me with the face that would become her teenage “stare of death,” and said, “Come on, Mom, you’re not THAT famous.” Ouch.

They are not beguiled. It used to really bug me. I mean, I do something pretty amazing for a living. I took a stack of my books to some people who had been particularly nice to my family today, and they gasped in admiration. They clutched my books like they were the precious treasures that they are. At last count, I have nearly half a million readers in seven countries.

But my math-wiz son? He only thinks to remind me that half a million books sold does not necessarily mean half a million readers. As if looking for a opportunity to take me down a peg. Which, I suppose, is the sworn duty of all high school students. The very air we breathe is an affront to their awesomeness.

Early on in my career I realized that this regrettably “normal” teen behavior means I’m doing it right. To them, I’m just Mom. Mom who happens to write books. And that’s a whole lot better than having an Author who just happens to be their Mother.

Then again, maybe it’s time for a little zombie romance.

A Little More About Allie....

An avid knitter, coffee junkie, and devoted chocoholic, Allie Pleiter writes both fiction and non-fiction. The enthusiastic but slightly untidy mother of two, Allie spends her days writing books, buying yarn, and finding new ways to avoid housework. Allie hails from Connecticut, moved to the midwest to attend Northwestern University, and currently lives outside Chicago, Illinois. The “dare from a friend” to begin writing has produced two parenting books, fourteen novels, and various national speaking engagements on faith, women’s issues, and writing. Visit her website at www.alliepleiter.com or her knitting blog at www.DestiKNITions.blogspot.com

Allie's latest book is Yukon Wedding, so check it out. Thank you, Allie, for visiting A Mom By Any Other Name!

Carseat Conversations {Easter}

2011-04-15T14:57:00.000-05:00

Recently, the girls and I were driving in the car and heard this story on the radio:

There was a young boy named Tommy who was frequently teased, and who never really seemed to fit in, even at Sunday School. One day, his Sunday School teacher gave the class an assignment: go into the church yard and fill a plastic egg with an item that represented Easter.

So, the class scattered, gathering their items, and soon it was time to return to the classroom. The first student opened her egg and a butterfly flew out. The students were impressed as the girl told them how the butterfly represented new life. The next student opened his egg to reveal a rock, and he explained that it represented the stone that was rolled away.

Finally, it was Tommy’s turn to share. The teacher’s fear turned into reality as she saw that Tommy hadn’t found anything, and his egg was empty. The other kids in the class began to make fun of Tommy for not completing the assignment. Before the teacher could step in, Tommy spoke up: “My egg is empty because the tomb was empty. And that’s the most important part of Easter.”

At this point, my back-seat passengers piped up. Lil' N said, “He’s right, Mom. That’s the best part!” Not to be outdone, Lil' R joined in. “Yeah! He rosed from the dead!” (This made me smile, because even though the grammar was incorrect, the message of Easter was spot-on!)

It always amazes me how easily children can grab onto the main point. As adults, we tend to complicate things. But like the boy in the story, my own daughters, and the kids I work with each week at our church, children often see things more clearly. The empty tomb is the message of Easter; hope can abound because Jesus rose from the dead.

I'm linking up with "Meaningful Easter" at impress your kids.org.

Verse of the Week: Romans 8:28

2011-04-07T13:15:00.001-05:00

“In all things God works for the good

of those who love him.”

Romans 8:28

My creativity was lacking this week, but I found this great coloring sheet for our Verse of the Week!

The girls started by coloring their pictures. Then we cut pictures apart on the lines like puzzle pieces.

Finally, we put the verses back to together and glued them to another sheet of paper. The putting-back-together turned out to be a little tricky...but that became our teachable moment! As we attempted to get the puzzle together, we talked about how sometimes in life, we can't see how everything will work out. But just like our verse, God knows how the pieces will fit together...and he is working for the good.

Tooth Be Told

2011-03-31T20:40:00.001-05:00

We've hit another milestone of child development:

Lil' N lost her first tooth!

The tooth pretty much went from not loose at all...to sorta loose...to out...in a day. {Which is good news, since her permanent tooth was already on the way in.} After a day of wiggling, Lil' N ran in from the other room, tooth in hand. When we asked her how she got it out, she explained,

"I was jumping up on the step-stool when...suddenly... KABLAM! It was out." {which really explains nothing.}

When faced with these unclear tooth-loosing circumstances, Lil' R immediately piped up,

"When need a commission to figure this out!"

Really? A commission? What three-year-old says that? I thought Hubby and I were going to pass out from laughing so hard!

And so with the first lost tooth came the first visit from the Tooth Fairy. The thing that struck me funny was that Lil' N consistently referred to the Tooth Fairy as "HE" or "HIM." Apparently, she likens the Tooth Fairy to The Rock -- which in this house, really was pretty spot-on. After a little consulting on the going price for a tooth, Hubby {aka - the Tooth Fairy} made the swap. And with one exchange of a baby tooth for a $1.50, I am forced yet again to admit that my babies are growing up.

Big Crazy Week

2011-03-28T07:07:00.001-05:00

This week is prepared to kick my butt.
But I've decided that I won't let it.

My to-do list is vast, but I've decided to take a deep breath and cross off one item at a time.
{Because that seems more productive than breathing into a paper bag.}

And, I am writing it down. Because later on, I may need reminding.

Verse of the Week: Ephesians 2:8

2011-03-25T09:34:00.000-05:00

For it is by grace you have been saved,

through faith—and this is not from yourselves,

it is the gift of God

Ephesians 2:8

This week, we made a music video with our Verse of the Week. The quality is pretty poor, but by the chorus (0:24) you can tell that the girls really know this verse! This is the song "Saved" by the Go Fish Guys, one of my girls' favorite bands!

The Madness of March

2011-03-24T12:32:00.000-05:00

So far, March has been one crazy month. Crazy busy. Crazy schedule. Crazy weather. I guess that's why they call it March Madness.

March Memory:
Hubby and I always enjoy filling out our brackets for the NCAA tournament and then watching the games together in a quest for the title of "champion." Several years ago, before our new house and snazzy new TV, Hubby would bring home a projector from work and we'd watch the games on a sheet hung from the living room wall. I suppose the new TV is better (HD, and all that jazz), but somehow watching it on the sheet seemed like more fun. Just sayin'.....

March Makeover:
We have a fabulously old house. (It was built over 100 years ago.) It has lots of quirks and character, which is part of its appeal for me. But it's also meant lots of projects for our family - and mostly, for my hubby. This month: our upstairs hallway. I came home several weeks ago to find Hubby building a closet in the hall. This is a project we've been discussing for a while and I was happy to see it happening. We have very few closets in our house, and this space was basically wasted. Upon completing the closet, we decided to paint the boring, beige walls. I am very happy with the results and the fact that we are finally doing something useful with this space.

This color makes me happy every time I see it!


The new TV-watching area for the girls. (And guest bed!)

Also, the new closet off to the left - it still needs a door, but it is functioning!

March Madness:
Last week was Spring Break for the girls. And because spring is always a crazy-busy time for Hubby at work, we didn't really have any plans. But there was a bit of madness involving St. Patrick's Day and green frosting. Observe:

Note the amount of frosting on the counter.

Verse of the Week: Genesis 1:1

2011-03-18T07:04:00.001-05:00

"In the beginning, God created

the heavens and the earth."
Genesis 1:1

Don't Blink

2011-03-15T23:08:00.001-05:00

Tonight the girls started their dance classes at the community center. They were soooo excited! And I have to tell you, from this mommy's point of view, I started picturing my little girls in tutus and ballet slippers about the time they started to walk.


TUTU Cute!

The thing I keep wondering is....how did these girls get so big? How did that happen? And where are these minutes going?

How did Lil' N change from this pint-sized three year old ready for her first day of dance...into this five year old dramatic diva?

And how did just one year turn my Lil' R from a toddler...to a lovely preschool lady?

There are times when I think my life needs a soundtrack. Perhaps this explains why I like musicals, but at times, it would just seem easier to explain my thoughts and feelings by bursting into song. While I won't, the lyrics to the song "Blink" keep running through my head today: Teach me to number my days...and count every moment before it slips away...take in all the colors before they fade to gray ...I don't want to miss even just a second more of this.

In all honesty, I have to tell you that these thoughts are not coming from a "perfect" day - quite the opposite, in fact. There have been temper tantrums and bad attitudes and disobedience and tears. But as I lay in bed tonight, with the words from "Blink" running through my head, I remembered that "this too will pass." And when it does, I will miss it.

Verse of the Week - Psalm 27:1

2011-03-10T12:37:00.000-06:00

"The Lord is my light and my salvation –
whom shall I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life –

of whom shall I be afraid?"
Psalm 27:1

Our "God is light" candles...or torches...or somethings...


This is such a goofy picture, but I guess it's real life! Lil' N is trying to blow out her light. And yes, Lil' R is wearing a leotard and a hard hat.

This was one of those projects that seemed better in my head than in reality. Psalm 27:1 reminded us that God is our light, so we decided to make candles. (Maybe they look more like torches?) While the project didn't turn out quite like I wanted, the important thing is that the girls are understanding and taking scripture to heart! We've missed the last several weeks of our "Verse of the Week" due to sick kiddos, and I was happy to find out from the girls how much they've missed it. I'm glad to know it's sinking in! Recently, we were listening to the radio as we were driving in the car and heard the song "Everlasting God." At the end of the song (around 3:50 in the video below) there's a voice reading Isaiah 4:31. The girls both yelled, "this was a verse of the week!" That was our very first verse in this project, and they remembered it! Woo hoo! Proud mommy moment!

Happy Birthday Hubby!

2011-03-08T13:54:00.000-06:00

Dear Hubby-

Today's your birthday...yay! I know you don't like to make a big deal of the "big day," but I do. (My blog, my rules!) I think I should take this moment to tell you, I think you're fabulous! Here are a few reasons why....

You are amazing at your job. The way your mind works impresses me. Thanks for taking the time to explain politics and policies to me without making me feel stupid.

You are a super-duper dad. Seriously, who knows how to have more fun than a big kid-at-heart? You're a hands-on, tuck em' in bed, sing silly songs, and play great games kind-of-dad.

You're a fabulous handyman. For all those time I say, "You know what would be great...." you're the one who makes those things possible. You've built me fences and new doors and ponds and closets and much, much more. You're building our life around us. That amazes me.

You're my go-to guy. When your Vacation Bible School director/wife asks you to lead games, you do it (and all the kids think it's a blast.) When I need you, you're there.

You're my friend. You're my number-one guy. You're my favorite.

Happy Birthday, Hubby.

Spread the Love

2011-02-25T12:31:00.000-06:00

I'm sorry to keep you in suspense. Because I'm sure that you've been up at night wondering about what my family did for Valentine's Day. (sarcasm intended) But alas...we've been dealing with sickness and doctor visits and ear infections and antibiotics around here, so I haven't had a chance to share our wonderful, family Valentine's Day celebration.

You see, this may possibly have been my most favorite Valentine's Day ever. I had a wonderful night...with the whole family. A little background: typically, we're pretty slacker-ish about Valentine's Day. We typically don't go out to dinner and the day typically doesn't involve roses. But this year, I decided that the day could only be as fabulous as I was willing to make it. So, we began to make plans for our family dinner.

We decided that we would use the good china...and get a heart-shaped pizza from Papa Murphy's. (Doesn't everyone eat their pizza on fine china?) The girls made some fabulous table decorations and helped to set the table. We put on some mood music. And we dressed up for the occasion and waited for the arrival of the hubby.

To our delight, Hubby arrived home early! (A rare treat during this time of year.) Also to our delight, he came bearing gifts...boxes of chocolates for the girls and a dozen roses for me! (Did I mention that I NEVER get roses on Valentine's Day?) But because Hubby was home early, supper was not quite ready yet. So we began with salad, which the girls declared was fancy "like at a restaurant."

We drank from the fancy glasses, although the girls thought the sparkling juice was "gross." We talked...we laughed...we had a great time. Following dinner, Hubby and the girls cut a rug on the dance floor that is our living room. (And then, there was a slight meltdown when the girls were instructed to put on their pj's. But the rest of the evening was so great, it pretty much eclipsed that little lapse in decorum.)

Best.Valentine's Day. Ever.

A toast!

Hooray for Valentine's Day! (And the conversation hearts, which Lil' N has jammed in her cheek like a chipmunk!)

Some after-dinner dancing...I love my family!

Verse of the Week: Psalm 139:14

2011-02-16T16:39:00.001-06:00

How you made me is wonderful and amazing.

What you have done is wonderful.

I know that very well.

Psalm 139:14

{Aha! The verse of the week project that allowed me to pull out the girls' adorable baby pictures!}

I remember that incredible moment when I first laid eyes on our daughters.

God truly had made them wonderful and amazing. And as much as I love them, God loves them more. Those great feelings of love that I have for my girls, God feels that infinitely more for me. Amazing.....and wonderful.

Verse of the Week: 1 Peter 4:8

2011-02-09T13:26:00.002-06:00

“Above all, love each other deeply,

because love covers a multitude of sins.”

1 Peter 4:8

This was a great verse for the week leading up to Valentine's Day! It was great reminder that love, if we let it, can cover over so many little, petty things! Below are Lil' R and Lil' N's projects for this week.

I'm linking up our Verse of the Week projects here:

{Recipe} Mountain Dew Apple Dumplings

2011-02-07T17:16:00.000-06:00

These apple dumplings are a new favorite around our house. They are fantastic! So, I decided to share the recipe.....you're welcome!

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Core, slice, & peel two apples.

Wrap each apple slice in a crescent roll triangle.

(You'll need 2 cans of crescent rolls.)

Line up the dumplings in a 9x13 inch pan.

On the stove, melt together:

2 sticks of butter, 2 cups of sugar, & 2 teaspoons of cinnamon.

Spread this mixture over the dumplings.

Pour a can of Mountain Dew around the perimeter of the pan.

(At this point, it looks a little strange, but I promise it will be delicious!)

Bake for 45 minutes. Then, dig in and enjoy!

Click here for a printable version of this recipe.

I'm linking this recipe up at:

Fab Five!

2011-02-01T14:26:00.000-06:00

Five great things I'm happy about right now (in no particular order).....

1.) It was finally warm enough (for a few days) for the girls to play outside!

We've had all this snow, just begging to be played in, but it's been too, too, too cold!

2.) Hubby's new job is going well. And if Hubby's happy, then I am happy. We got the chance to visit his new office in the capitol and enjoy lunch with him last week.

3.) Several weeks ago, we had the chance to celebrate with our friend who recently finished his cancer treatments and has no evidence of disease! We got to stand along his driveway for a surprise party and welcome him and his wife home with sparklers! What an amazing couple who have traveled a tough road with grace, courage, and humor!

4.) My aunt is battling cervical cancer....which is not a happy thing at all. But what IS happy is the fact that her treatments are showing results and the tumor is shrinking -- great, great, great news!

5.) Coffee and play-dates! I recently had the chance to sit and talk with another mom over a wonderful cup of Caribou coffee, while our kids played cheerfully together. What a great, stress-free day!

Verse of the Week: Jeremiah 1:5

2011-02-01T13:01:00.000-06:00


Lil' R places her words in order. (Note the tongue, stuck out in concentration.)

“Before I formed you in your mother’s body, I choose you.

Before you were born, I set you apart to serve me.”

Jeremiah 1:5

This week's verse came from Jeremiah 1:5. The girls and I talked about how God put us together. Then, we put together our verse that I had cut apart, word by word. I numbered the words on the back, and the girls had a lot of fun putting the words in order. (Bonus! We were working on our math skills, as well!)

Hard at work!

What a great thought...that God KNEW ME before I was even formed! I feel like this was a great project with the kids because as they had to think and plan to put their verses together, it was a great reminder of the thought and care that God took as He created us.

Finished products!

Verse of the Week: 2 Corinthians 4:16

2011-01-23T17:02:00.000-06:00

So we do not lose heart.

Though our outer self is wasting away,

our inner self is being renewed day by day.

2 Corinthians 4:16

Here's our new verse of the week. While the girls had a blast with the foamy-heart stickers, it was a bit of a challenge to explain the concept of "inner self" and "outer self" to my 3 and 5 year olds! But, I tried my best! And it makes me smile how excited the girls are about each new verse!

Verse of the Week: Lamentations 3:23

2011-01-21T11:08:00.000-06:00

His great love is new every morning.

Lord, how faithful you are!

- Lamentations 3:23 -


Our "suns" - to remind us that God's love is new EVERY morning

The verse of this week really hit it's mark with me. I've been thinking a lot about morning and daylight. Probably because the air temperature is -12 degrees today. And because I have come to the unfortunate conclusion that I am solar powered. And in these long, winter months, when sunlight is at a premium, I have a hard time accomplishing as much as I’d like.

My solar-powered nature became more evident while I used up several iTunes gift cards that I had received for Christmas. I began to notice a pattern of songs relating to light. One of my favorite songs on my playlist right now is called Light up the Sky. One of the lines in the song states “You light up the sky to show me you are with me.

The theme of “light” also seems to be showing up in what I read. I’ve been participating in an online verse-of-the-week project with the girls (check it out here), and this week, our verse was Lamentations 3:23 – “His great love is new every morning. Lord, how faithful you are!” What a perfect tie-in.

I also read this quote this week: “His mercies are new every day. Like the sunrise, you can depend on it rising up. But unlike the sun, God’s mercy doesn’t disappear in dark seasons.” (Cheryl Wyatt)

It’s becoming increasing clear to me that God understands the “solar-powered” tendencies of all of us. He knows our hearts need to turn to him like flowers need to turn toward the sun. It’s encouraging to know that during this season of cold and darkness, God’s light is always shining, calling us back to him.

My little crafters, hard at work

Verse of the Week: Isaiah 40:31

2011-01-14T13:18:00.000-06:00

“But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength.

They will soar high on wings like eagles.

They will run and not grow weary.

They will walk and not faint.”

Isaiah 40:31

We started something new this week! I recently came across the Little Thoughts by LT blog. She's hosting a "Verse of the Week," and we've jumped right in. (Technically, we are a week late, but better late then never!) I've decided to make the verse of the week our special project. Yesterday, the girls and I made eagles out of their hand prints and made up actions to go along with the verse. I'm excited to see what we'll learn together as we go through this year!

Our new "Verse of the Week" display

A close-up of Lil' R's eagle

Lil' N's completed project (including some of her "word wall words" that she knows how to write)

Here's to "Me-Time"

2011-01-13T10:45:00.000-06:00

Today is Thursday. The one morning of the week when both kiddos are at school while I'm not at work. So, Thursday mornings have officially been declared "Me-Time!"

I've decided that on Thursday mornings, I will NOT feel guilty about being completely un-productive. I will ignore the dishes in the sink and the laundry waiting to be folded. I will shut out the "mommy guilt" that seem to have invaded my brain from the first moment I found out I was pregnant. And I will enjoy a cup of coffee in peace.

Today is Thursday. Let's raise a glass to "Me-Time."

Gettin' Crafty...

2011-01-08T18:19:00.000-06:00

The Christmas season has come to a close. It seems like our family spent the entire month of December celebrating! And while it was lovely, I'm glad to get things back to normal (or something resembling normal, at least!)

And now, I can share my one "crafty" project of the gift-giving season. It seems like I never attempt any sort of craft project unless there is a deadline. But I was really proud of how these "family scrabble boards" turned out.

I made these for my husband's siblings and their spouses, using the names of all the family members and other "family" words (such as faith, always, love, share, etc.) No, I didn't come up with this idea myself...I'm not THAT good! The idea came from this website.